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Change the script on victim blaming.

If someone you care about was a victim of crime,
what would you say to them? Many victims are blamed for what happened to them - often by people they know.

What we say when someone opens up
can make a real difference.

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Leave a message of support for someone affected by crime. Your words will appear on the wall as part of a growing movement to end victim blaming.

Your Messages of Support

Joan
It's not your fault.

You found your self in a situation(s) that were not yours to control. You did your best to use logic and reason to make the violence (of any kind) stop. Sometimes you thought you were successful only to find out you were not. All this takes bravery and courage. Remember that. Remember too, that people may make assumptions about what happened but you and only you knows the truth. Stand up and be proud of of yourself. You are a survivor.

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May 2026
Saige England
Place The Shame Where It Belongs - With the Perpetrator not the Victim/Survivor

Abuse visits us but it is not us. The abusers are rarely brought to trial under our system of injustice. Many powerful abusers are adept at controlling the narrative via the media. Survivors need and deserve support. And they need a system that supports them. I stand with all survivors and I believe them.

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May 2026
To all that suffer no more 💜

We need to protect and serve 🥰

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May 2026
Wes
I am a survivor

I am a male survivor of horrific abuse throughout my childhood and still get bullied and treated like a leper in society. I get told I asked for it, why didn't I stand up to my abusers when I was growing up, and apparently I must have enjoyed it because I didn't try and stop it. It wasn't my fault nor was I a coward for not standing up to my abusers.IT IS NOT OUR FAULT!!

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May 2026
Price
You are not alone

Is is not your fault. Keep strong. Kia kaha. Know that people are behind you.

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May 2026
Don't give up

I am a victim and my kids and I have been publicly harassed, thrown at, bullied by police, shamed into hiding, laughed at daily by members of the public etc I will not stop teaching and helping support others no matter what a predator offers me I will not back down noe ever give up on justice

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May 2026

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