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Change the script on victim blaming.

If someone you care about was a victim of crime,
what would you say to them? Many victims are blamed for what happened to them - often by people they know.

What we say when someone opens up
can make a real difference.

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Leave a message of support for someone affected by crime. Your words will appear on the wall as part of a growing movement to end victim blaming.

Your Messages of Support

Jane Moreton
Kia kaha

Absolutely 💯 you are not to blame.

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May 2026
Jess Stott
Family violence

Support around this and financial support

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May 2026
Vicky
Hold your head up high

If you’re able to read these messages of support, you’re on your way to healing. Every tiny step forward should be seen as a massive accomplishment on your part so keep it up, kia kaha!

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May 2026

Victims don't deserve to be blamed judged or stigmatized it's hard to speak out because they are so afraid of what will happen to them there children or pets or because because the

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May 2026
Heidi
It is NOT your fault

It is not your fault you didn't leave sooner! You were in survival mode and all that matters is that you're safe now. We love you and we all stand behind you.!

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May 2026
Rose Fisk
Victims unite

You are not too blame. You are the victim the blame lays solely at the feet of the perpetrator. Victims become thriving survivors

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May 2026

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Your voice matters. Share this message on social media and help us reach more people who need to hear it — "it's not your fault".

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