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Change the script on victim blaming.

If someone you care about was a victim of crime,
what would you say to them? Many victims are blamed for what happened to them - often by people they know.

What we say when someone opens up
can make a real difference.

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Leave a message of support for someone affected by crime. Your words will appear on the wall as part of a growing movement to end victim blaming.

Your Messages of Support

Such an important message. I've been victim blamed, and I've victim blamed. Now, I know it's as simple as saying, 'its not your fault' - I'm committed to doing better.

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Mar 2026
Haley Littlewood
It's not your fault

If you’re reading this and need to hear it, please know this: it’s not your fault. You’re not alone, and we’re here for you.

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Mar 2026
Victoria
You can and you will get through this

Your feelings are valid, you didn't deserve for this to happen to you. Believe in yourself, take small steps and know that it won't always feel this intense. You can and you will get through this. We believe in you.

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Carol Hall
It's not easy!

To open up to anyone. Whether it is family, close friends or complete strangers. It is ok to have enough faith, hope and self-love to start reaching out and asking for help. Whether you are a victim or know someone going through trauma. It is ok to reach out for help. That is your first responsibility and priority to yourself.It is not your fault. With much love ❤️

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Maggie
You are brave

You are so brave for seeking help, we are here for you and you are not alone ❤️

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babywhitewood@gmail.com
U shouldn't have to relive it

Experiencing something horrific, working through injuries and trauma then to be revictimised by being publicly accused of deserving it, or causing it. It's an injustice that's sometimes worse than the original event. Because it keeps you there. Protection of a perpetrator out of shame and silence. That's a life sentence alone. Huge to carry.

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