Free, nationwide support for people affected by crime and traumatic events.
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Change the script on victim blaming.
If someone you care about was a victim of crime,
what would you say to them? Many victims are blamed for what happened to them - often by people they know.
What we say when someone opens up
can make a real difference.
Add your voice
Leave a message of support for someone affected by crime. Your words will appear on the wall as part of a growing movement to end victim blaming.
Your Messages of Support
KIA KAHA -STAND STRONG
Guilt is what the perpetrators want you to feel. Hurt is what they want you to feel. This all ends in the shame they want you to take fault for. Know your worth. Love yourself. Believe in yourself. Trust your instincts. But most of all, blanket yourself in YOUR trust. YOUR love. We got this!🤩🧡💛🩵💜
Mar 2026
Victim support
Victims should be supported before perpetrators!
Mar 2026
Cease victim shaming & blaming
Having lived & breathed that circumstance repeatedly myself, until recently. YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR OTHERS WORDS, ACTIONS, OR DEEDS. Whether whānau, friends or complete strangers to you, you do not have to surrender yourself. Even if unable to exit or leave, just know this, you truly are a blessing. The only one we control is ourself. Do not bother tainting your life, move forward if & when able to. Seek YOUR people to love & support you unconditionally. Tīhei Mauriora!
Mar 2026
It's not your fault
Stop Victim blaming
Mar 2026
Speaking up and sharing your story takes courage. You deserve to have a voice and there are many people who are ready to listen and support.
Mar 2026
It's not your fault
To anyone who needs to hear this what happened to you is not your fault.I know how heavy the shame, confusion, and self-doubt can feel, especially when others don’t understand or question your choices. But surviving something like this doesn’t make you weak, it means you endured, adapted, and kept going in ways only you could.There is a life beyond this one where you feel safe, seen, and whole again. And you deserve every part of it. <3
Mar 2026
