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Change the script on victim blaming.

If someone you care about was a victim of crime,
what would you say to them? Many victims are blamed for what happened to them - often by people they know.

What we say when someone opens up
can make a real difference.

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Leave a message of support for someone affected by crime. Your words will appear on the wall as part of a growing movement to end victim blaming.

Your Messages of Support

Someone who cares
Im so proud of you

Im so proud of who you are and who you will become once the storm has passed. It will pass and you will still be standing.

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Apr 2026
Joelle
Its on them, not you

You are not responsible for another person’s state of mind or awful actions, that is on them not you.Hold your head high, sometimes it’s just one breath at a time, and take another step.You are special, you are brave and you are loved .

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Apr 2026
Sophia
Although it is so hard ...

Remember, it isn’t your fault, you didn't choose what happened, hand the responsibility back to wherever it truly belongs

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Apr 2026
Ano
Don't be flippant

Please do not say "fingers crossed" or the likes that things can come right. Healing is not a lottery. Please do not victim blame. This is devastating. I've had family friends and a counselor do this. Nobody has the right.

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Apr 2026
Valerie Tredrea

It’s not your fault

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Apr 2026
Raniera Hughes
Sex victims

It’s not your fault

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Apr 2026

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