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Change the script on victim blaming.

If someone you care about was a victim of crime,
what would you say to them? Many victims are blamed for what happened to them - often by people they know.

What we say when someone opens up
can make a real difference.

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Leave a message of support for someone affected by crime. Your words will appear on the wall as part of a growing movement to end victim blaming.

Your Messages of Support

Leo
You are valid

As much as it may feel like your fault, as much as you go over every possibility & crucify yourself over it... It's not your fault. It's ok to be angry at someone who hurt you. You are valid 💚 your emotions are valid & I promise it's not your fault. Get mad at the person who wronged you, you have every right.

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May 2026
Lynda
You are enough

You are not alone, but you are enough! Speak up and be proud to do so, one voice can be heard and many can make a change. Use fear as your fighter force. May peace be with you.

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May 2026
Helen
You did nothing wrong

He chose to do that to you. You didn't deserve it. You should have been safe. He should have been a better person. This is on him. I'm so sorry you carry the burden of his actions. Please try to feel safe in your own body and space

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May 2026
Kate
I support you

I support you. Believe in yourself. They are the criminal.

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May 2026
Julie
We stand together

For all those who have been blamed and shamed, I stand with you.Always remember, it was never about me, you, us…but it was/is about ‘them’…those who chose to judge us unfairly.They judge according to their values, their experience, their perception. They then project their condemnation onto others.Neither you, nor I was to blame and it is definitely NOT (y)our fault.Continue to speak your truth and to stand in your own power 💪🏻We shall overcome.Namaste 🙏

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May 2026
Tina Westcott
Kia Kaha.

I've been stuck in a violent home with my kids. I know how you're feeling. But you gotta do the hard stuff to come to the good stuff. Leave his ass.

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May 2026

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