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Change the script on victim blaming.

If someone you care about was a victim of crime,
what would you say to them? Many victims are blamed for what happened to them - often by people they know.

What we say when someone opens up
can make a real difference.

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Leave a message of support for someone affected by crime. Your words will appear on the wall as part of a growing movement to end victim blaming.

Your Messages of Support

Joan Lee
Victim

I've been thru an thru, I've been assaulted and beaten and raped an kidnapped, then made the call,to leave domestic violence, then it all turned. The police and the family courts became my new abuser. But I will never be a quitter, thru an thru , our creator has been my biggest support! I will an have been striving towards correcting the injustices and circumstances I/we are forced to endure . Survived the most evil, and still climbing thru the vibes of deception

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Mar 2026
Sarah Norkett
It's ok to be emotional.

It's not right to have your emotions dismissed and downplayed purposefully because of someone's bad actions toward you! You are aloud to feel upset if you are treated badly and you should be listened too!

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Mar 2026

It's so hard when people around you keep asking questions that make you wonder if something you did caused what happened to you - don't let those voices in. You can start asking yourself the same questions and blaming yourself. However, It's. Not. Your. Fault!

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Mar 2026
Alex
End Victim Blaming

What happened to you was not your fault. You are loved, valued, and believed. Kia kaha.

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Mar 2026
Vanessa
Our pledge and support for you.

You have my deepest respect, my deepest compassion, and my full support. We will continue to work hard to ensure you're not harmed by messages or systems that fail to place blame where it belongs - with the perpetrator of harm and crime - and never with you. Stay strong. You're incredible.

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Mar 2026
Alex Childs
You're stronger than you know

You matter. Your voice matters. What happened, it is not your fault.The burden of blame is not yours. Do not carry it with you.

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Mar 2026

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